I can't tell you how many times I have answered that question in my lifetime. My usual answer is, "I don't know what it is like not to be a twin." But lately I've been thinking about how much I like being a twin, so here is a post dedicated to my twin.
Lisa came out at the beginning of the month. I still feel bad that I didn't take her out to do anything exciting while she was here, but having her stay with me reminded me of what an awesome mom she is! She and James were sick for a little while during their stay, and she was so incredibly patient with him even when she was sick and he was throwing a tantrum. She was up earlier than I was every morning and did more cleaning the couple days she was here than I did.

Lisa has taught me
so much about being a mom! I watched her with James and try to emulate many of her mothering qualities. She sings constantly with James. I have tried very hard to remember all the songs she sings with him and sing them with Ethan. She also spends a lot of time explaining things to JJ instead of just telling him no. For example, when we were at my mom's house, JJ went over by one of my mom's dogs while she was eating. The conversation between Lisa and JJ went something like this:
Lisa: JJ, can I talk to you?
JJ: Yeah
Lisa: Do you like the dogs?
JJ: Yeah
Lisa: Do you think the dogs like their treats?
JJ: Yeah
Lisa: If you go over there, the dogs might think you are trying to take their treats. How do you think the dogs would feel if you took their treats?
JJ: Sad
Lisa: Yeah, and they might even get mad and try to bite you. So let's stay away from the dogs while they are eating.
Way better than, "No!" She is always so positive!
I miss having Lisa here, but the nice thing is, it kinda feels like she does live near by. It is because of her that I need unlimited text messages and Sprint to Sprint cell phone minutes. I love having someone I can call or text about
anything. With us, even the smallest things like losing a pound, or a change in our babies' poop warrants a text message. I call her about everything, and she always let's me vent until I get it all out. She is a great listener and full of good advice.
Lisa is also incredibly smart! She graduated Summa Cum Laude in BYU's Audiology and Speech Language Pathology department and spoke at graduation! Then she went on to complete her Master's in one year, getting all A's, with a new born! And, I don't remember what her GRE score was, but I know it was awesome!

Lisa is very creative and generous. She has done a lot of painting and decorating around her house and makes really cute homemade cards and gifts. Since elementary school, she has had a gift for poetry. I still remember the award she got in first or second grade. As silly as it sounds, anytime I need something turned into a rhyme, I call her and she can do it. She has even made up special verses to songs for James (if I had more time I would link to her posts about them). She has gone on service trips to Kenya and Mexico and has aspirations of saving the African children--even if that means Dan never gets his dream car. ;)
So do I like being a twin?
When my twin is Lisa: YES!
P.S. Any of you who knew us pre-college are probably picking your jaws up off the floor right now. Let's just say I haven't always thought so highly about Lisa, but we both know we didn't mean all those mean words that were exchanged. :)